tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8996804175344079283.post6177729849210226344..comments2024-01-03T09:19:27.947-07:00Comments on A Hummingbird Paused: 7 Week UltrasoundJessica Martinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07974420232451955131noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8996804175344079283.post-54424139844579496132015-03-07T09:54:42.204-07:002015-03-07T09:54:42.204-07:00Oh hun!! My heart just breaks for you. I also ha...Oh hun!! My heart just breaks for you. I also had an early miscarriage. It took about a week for the cramping and bleeding to begin and then I bled for about a week or so afterwards. The cramping was the worst the first three days. I'm praying for you hun. And I'm asking that the Lord wrap His grace and mercies around your heart and situation. I am also praying Zechariah 9:12 over you which says that the Lord restores double for our trouble. Love ya sugars! And grieve anyway that you want. <br /><br />waitingforbabybird.comAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11265254522670394237noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8996804175344079283.post-60598211690279774222015-02-21T14:33:18.226-07:002015-02-21T14:33:18.226-07:00I am so sorry Jessica! I just went through this m...I am so sorry Jessica! I just went through this myself at the beginning of January. We went in for our first u/s at 6w1d and didn't see a heartbeat. We went back on Jan. 8th at 7w4d and there was no change. I started cramping on the night of 11th with bleeding to follow the next day. I had cramping/bleeding until the following Monday and I believe I miscarried that Thursday. That was the day with the most pain/clotting/bleeding. It was all over with a week and a half after we found out the news. It is okay to ugly cry, scream, be sad, be angry! I hate that you have to know this heart break and I wish there was something I could say to make it better. If you ever need to vent, I'm here (pdot95@gmail.com). Sending you and Daniel so much love and prayers!! Hugs!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8996804175344079283.post-18013123440752684812015-02-21T12:37:14.969-07:002015-02-21T12:37:14.969-07:00Yes, do what feels right to you. That's the mo...Yes, do what feels right to you. That's the most important thing, feeling like you have some control over the process. Even with the grief, I had to control some of it-- I couldn't deal with all the grief right away because it was just too much. Which is why I'm still feeling the trickles of it a year later, but I'm ok with that. It's a slow process and that is ok. <br /><br />Not being able to sleep was the worst. I hope you can start sleeping better and escape a few hours of the pain. <br /><br />It will get better. I promise. It will always hurt, but it will get better. Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15954409643700006532noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8996804175344079283.post-4613499337194265672015-02-21T08:45:01.345-07:002015-02-21T08:45:01.345-07:00I'll definitely check it out.I'll definitely check it out.Jessica Martinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07974420232451955131noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8996804175344079283.post-29045320043814927592015-02-21T08:44:48.970-07:002015-02-21T08:44:48.970-07:00Thank you. I'm so sorry that you've been t...Thank you. I'm so sorry that you've been through this too. I think I'll give it another week and if no bleeding then I'll medically induce next weekend. I don't want this to be drawn out any longer than it needs to.Jessica Martinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07974420232451955131noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8996804175344079283.post-75889709329258490972015-02-20T22:12:34.026-07:002015-02-20T22:12:34.026-07:00I'm so sorry Jessica! Sending you lots of love...I'm so sorry Jessica! Sending you lots of love! XoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8996804175344079283.post-61664345851066225062015-02-20T21:35:58.754-07:002015-02-20T21:35:58.754-07:00I blogged through some of my grief at www.buriedho...I blogged through some of my grief at www.buriedhopes.com, during February of last year. Not sure if it will be helpful to you. Praying for peace as you grieve this awful loss. Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15954409643700006532noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8996804175344079283.post-49175502139035914012015-02-20T21:33:26.501-07:002015-02-20T21:33:26.501-07:00I went through this a year ago. When I read your p...I went through this a year ago. When I read your post last week, I was scared you would have to endure this. It is pain like no other. I'm still grieving it, even though I have real live baby born this month. But I can't forget how awful things were last year, how it killed me to see the ultrasound screen, the look on the doctors face as he searched for life. It was all so very awful. <br /><br />I chose to medically induce so I could have some control over it. I took the drug on a Friday night with wine and Vicodin. It was horrible but better than carrying around my dead baby for any longer. If the next few days get to hard, I would recommend that route. <br /><br />I am so so sorry. Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15954409643700006532noreply@blogger.com